T
ILAKA
DHARANAM
(The wearing of marks on the
forehead)
One of the special features of the Hindu
religion is that every one of its followers must wear some mark on
his forehead, such as Vibhuti (ash), or Tirumann (holy sand or holy
mud), Gobichandan, or chandan or carbon black streaks, or kumkum,
etc.
The wearing of these
marks like Vibhuti or basma reminds us of so many aspects of our
dhama. The wearing of kumkum also reminds us of many great truths.
The wearing of gobichandan reminds us of Lord Vishnu. In the case of
Madhvas also, the black lines Vishnu. In the case of Madhvas also,
the black lines remind them to Vishnu. Thus, the wearing of these
marks has got its special significance.
The wearing of
Vibhuti reminds us of Paramesvara. Is is said:
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The term ‘Vibhuti’
means wealth. How do we say that Vibhuti signifies wealth?
For this, we have to
analyse the manner in which Vibhuti is prepared. It is prepared from
something in which Lakshmi resides. It is prepared from cowdung
which comes from the hind part of the cow where Lakshmi resides. The
Vibhuti which is sold in the bazaars may not be pure Vibhuti
obtained in this manner. Pure Vibhuti has to be prepared by burning
dried cowdung cakes. Lakshmi resides in the hind part of the cow,
and other Devatas also reside in various parts of the cow. So,
cowdung has a special significance, and the Vibhuti prepared by
burning cowdung is also considered to be a sign of wealth.
Lakshmi resides in
five places, mainly, the hind part of the cow, the head of the
elephant, the line of parting of hair on a married woman’s head, in
the lotus and in the Bilva leaves. In North India, married women
wear sindoor at the line of parting of the hair on their heads.
This is our dharma
and this is of very great significance.
While other flowers
and leaves have to be plucked and used on the same day for the puja,
the Bilva leaves and lotus flowers could be kept and used for about
ten days, because Lakshmi resides in them, and therefore there is no
nirmalya dosha. But all other flowers have to be plucked and used
the same day.
Lakshmi also resides
in other places, for instance, where there is courage, where there
is good conduct, where there is truth and so on. The cowdung itself
is regarded as sacred, and the Vibhuti obtained by burning it is
considered to be a sign of wealth. As long as we have Vibhuti, there
will be no poverty and there would be no question of taking
loans.
I often used to say
that our country is in debts today and has taken so much of loans
only because our people have left off the habit of wearing Vibhuti
or marks on their foreheads. If our people would have continued this
habit, we would not have incurred so much of loans. If once again
all of us start wearing tilak or marks on our foreheads, we shall be
able to wipe off all our debts. There are actual instances in
history where after people started wearing Vibhuti, the country had
become prosperous. In Madurai, Saint Tirujnanasambandar had exhorted
all the people to wear Vibhuti, and soon the country became
prosperous and all poverty vanished. When wealth or Vibhuti is
there, how could there be poverty?
Unfortunately,
nowadays, the habit of wearing Vibhuti is becoming less and less.
Some people wear Vibhuti for a short while, while doing their
anushtana and while going to office, they just wipe it away.
Therefore, our people get only that much of joy or happiness and
they enjoy only that much of wealth and they do not have full
satisfaction also in anything that they do.
Therefore, the
wearing of Vibhuti is very necessary. It is a symbol of wealth and
prosperity and happiness. In fact, Isvara Himself wears Vibhuti. He
wears three horizontal bands of Vibhuti on His forehead. Therefore,
the wearing of Vibhuti reminds us of Isvara ultimately.
Vibhuti has no form
and no colour and its colour is just white. Other things may have
some chemical colours, but Vibhuti is pure white. It also denotes
the last state of everything in the world. The last product of
complete burning is only ashes. That last state of things is the
state of Paramesvara. It implies purity also. Vibhuti thus reminds
us ultimately of the fact that only ashes remain when a thing is
burnt completely, or only Para Brahman remains in its pure and white
form. Thus, the wearing of Vibhuti reminds us of so many great
philosophical truths also.
If we trace the cause
of all things, we find that only one eternal substance is the sole
and universal cause of the variety and multiplicity that we see in
this world. It is as a symbol of that ultimate source of things that
we wear Vibhuti. Vibhuti reminds us that everything is Sivamayam
only, which is the ultimate goal of all life. When a thing is burnt,
first it becomes black, and when it is burnt, first it becomes
black, and when it is burnt again, it becomes white ash, and even if
we burn it again, this white ash alone remains. Therefore, the
consummation of all bodies is ashes only. So, Vibhuti in the
material plane corresponds to Siva in the spiritual plane. When we
burn everything in the fire of knowledge, what remains is Siva only
or Parabrahman only.
Similarly, kumkum or
vermilion which is saffron or red in colour reminds us of Lakshmi.
The method of preparing kumkum has been prescribed. It is prepared
from turmeric by mixing with lime juice, ghee and so many other
things and we should wear only kumkum prepared in this manner. We
should use only that kumkum while worshipping Devatas and then wear
it. It reminds us of Parvatisvarupa or Lakshmisvarupa. It reminds us
of Lakshmi who is red in colour and thus it is also a sign of
wealth.
The wearing of
gobichandan reminds us of the gobimud which was sanctified by the
holy feet of Lord Krishna, and it reminds us of the gopis and then
also of the Lord. Therefore, we wear gobichandan to remind ourselves
of Lord Vishnu.
The Madhvas wear
carbon black mark on their body and on their forehead. The carbon
black denotes the idea that ultimately everything will perish in
this world and become charred into carbon on being burnt. Therefore,
nobody should have any attachment to any worldly thing, but
everybody should develop Vairagya or detachment. The Madhvas wear
this along with Gobichandan. Thus, they remind themselves of Lord
Vishnu and also develop the spirit of renunciation and
detachment.
The wearing of tilak
in any one of these forms is a special characteristic of the Hindu
religion. It is also an indication of the fact that those who wear
it are believers in the theory of past and future birth. Even
Buddhists and Jains accept this theory and therefore they also wear
such marks on their foreheads.
There is also another
significance in the wearing of tilak or Vibhuti on our
foreheads.
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It means that
whatever is written on the forehead of a person cannot be altered
and nobody can change it. Even Isvara cannot change it. It is
written on the forehead and therefore, everyone has to suffer it.
When a person is suffering and he complains about it, we just tell
him ‘It is written on your forehead, therefore you have to suffer.’
But if something good happens, at that time, nobody says that it is
written on his forehead and therefore he is happy or he is enjoying.
It is only when bad things happen that we invoke this idea.
Actually, both good and bad are written on the forehead, and every
individual has to experience it.
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or lunar eclipse, those persons in whose stars the eclipse takes
place or whose stars are affected wear a palm leaf containing a
scroll written on it which serves as prophylactic or preventive
against the bad effects of the eclipse on them. For instance, during
lunar eclipse, the following is written:
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