Vidhura Needhi
Even when one is
confronted with the worst trials and tribulations, he should not
lose his balance. Patience is a virtue and the quality of endurance
(kshama) is the hallmark of nobility. This is evidenced by
Dharmaputra's absolute calmness and unperturbed
outlook.
Sri Karpangadu
Venkatachariar expounding the Mahabharata dealt with the ennobling
advice given by Vidhura, a great counselor and an unparalleled
statesman, to the blind king, Dhritarashtra, while explaining the
impending consequences arising out of the enmity between the
Pandavas and the Kauravas, Vidhura Needhi as it may be termed,
brought out several valuable doctrines. For instance, Vidhura says
that some are always intent on creating rift and conflict, reveling
in sowing seeds of dissension or wounding others' sentiments.
Friendship with such men should be shunned. Those endowed with
wealth should help their kith and kin in want. They should however
decide either to refuse to part with their one or render the aid,
knowing full well that it will not be returned. There is no point in
regretting or lamenting over the loss later.
Dharma Sastras, in which
several codes are laid, are no doubt difficult to follow, but it
will be wrong to discard them because of the hardship involved in
putting them into practice. Words of wisdom dinned into the ears of
those who refuse to listen and assimilate them, are like precious
things lost in the ocean, which are irrecoverable. Dharma Sastras
should be taught step by step. Since youth is the period when one is
pulled on all sides by temptations, the restrictions on personal
conduct are rigid. If there is no control over the Senses
(Indriyas), the result will be unmitigated suffering. Lust, of any
kind, should be controlled with grim determination through strict
self-discipline. Even Devas are no exception and he instanced
indra's overtures to Ahalya. Vidhura tells the king that Duryodana's
acts against the Pandavas were unpardonable. Wealth accumulated by
means other than fair, is bad. If the ill-gotten money is to be
distributed with an eye on obtaining future benefits, it will be of
no avail. The self-possessed, like Dharmaputra, should remain
unruffled under all conditions, with his thoughts fixed on
God.
June
16, 1964
Guide to
virtue
A
shrewd man would scrupulously avoid evil deeds and refrain from
doing acts, which men of learning and the Shastras did not approve
of, Stubborn in his decision to do only virtuous deeds; he would
brook no delay in executing them. Avarice, anger and greed are among
the qualities that should be renounced, if one is to live in peace
and happiness. Even under the most adverse conditions, one should
not give up courage, truth, patience, rectitude and charitableness.
To the strong, endurance ads prestige, and to the weak, it is a
source of strength.
In a discourse Sri
Sengalipuram Anantarama Dikshitar dwelt at length on what is known
as "Vidhura Needhi" – the advice given by the chief counselor, to
the agitated King Dhritarashtra on Dharmam, with the hope of making
him realize his obligation to return to the Pandavas their share of
the kingdom.
Vidhura told the king that
anger was the starting point for other passions, which obstructed
the path to salvation. The adage "time is a great healer" was more
true in respect of anger than others. Anger would run itself out in
course of time and the desire to wreak vengeance on the opponent
would vanish. The Atharva Veda contained, inter alia, certain acts,
which, if done without a flaw, would cause evil to others. These
karmas had been purposely made rigorous, complicated and elongated –
the idea being to allow some time to bring down the heat of one's
anger. A person performing the karma would, in almost all cases, get
vexed and impatient halfway through, and ultimately give up the idea
of revenge. Vidhura said it would be a grave folly to try to achieve
stupendous tasks, if one did not have the strength of Dharmam on his
side. The ruler of a country should be careful in choosing his
advisers and allies. To be friend opportunists and antagonize true
friends would result in self-annihilation. Procrastination, lethargy
and fear should be discarded. Knowledge, unless combined with
association with the virtuous (sat sangham) would lead to ahankara.
A king should not indulge without limit in kama, drinking, gambling
or hunting. He should avoid lavish expenditure. One who does not
rejoice over other men's suffering and one who does not live for his
own well-being are truly great. Any amount of teaching of Dharmam or
virtue would have no effect on a lunatic, a person whose
concentration was engaged on something else, and on one who was
under the influence of anger, kama, hunger, fear or liquor. To
impress on Dhritarashtra the need to stick to fair play and justice,
Vidhura narrated a story relating to Prahlada. Even when his own
son's life was at stake, Prahlada did not deviate from the path of
Satyam and upheld the contention of his son's opponent. But all the
advice of Vidhura proved a waste.
November 17,
1964
Nature of a true gift:
Markandeya's exposition
Alms-giving should be
regarded as part of one's duty, which it will be sinful to discard.
A gift made in the expectation of name, fame or reward will be
devoid of its value. Sage Markandeya commended to Yudhishtirar the
example of King Sibi, who without even the slightest hesitation or
displeasure killed his own son and made food of him to satisfy his
guest (Brahma in disguise). When Brahma asked what made him do that
grievous act, the king replied he felt it was his duty to please the
guest and that failure to do so would be a sin. (Sibi's son was
later restored to life by Brahma).
In his discourse Sri T.S.
Balakrishna Sastrigal said that the dialogue between Markandeya and
Yudhishtirar was itself an exposition of Dharmam. The sage related
an anecdote about Sibi and three other kings to explain what
constituted the noblest form of Dharmam. One king claimed ownership
of the cattle, which he had already gifted away, while the second
gave as a gift his horse to a scholar, but afterwards cursed him (in
his absence) for having asked for it. The third king described his
chariot, out of humility and courtesy, as Narada's but did not
actually part with it. Sage Narada told the three kings that these
blemishes in their otherwise clean record of Dharmic deeds lowered
their ranks, compared to Sibi, Narada acknowledged Sibi to be
superior even to himself.
Markandeya explained that
a person became great by faithful adherence to his duties
(swadharmam), giving alms to the worthy, speaking truth and leading
a pious and righteous life. Persons committing sins and leading an
immoral life seemed to prosper, while the pious, God-fearing and
noble suffered. It was one's own deeds, good or bad, that resulted
in happiness or sorrow; but it was impossible for men to cite one
specific deed as the cause for the happiness (or sorrow) one enjoyed
(or suffered) at a particular point of time. God, who is the
Sutradhari, established that link. Whoever, endowed with wealth and
comforts in the present life, used them for performing good deeds
would be endowed with a happy living in future birth; whereas one
who committed atrocities, harmed the good and defied the Code of
Ethical conduct, would be happy neither in this birth nor in the
births to come.
Every creature in the
universe is bound by certain rules of behaviour. If anything goes
wrong, though insignificant by itself, a series of reactions will be
set in motion causing major disorders, which result in serious
consequences. When it becomes impossible for the good to discharge
their duties, because of the deeds of the wicked, God takes an
avatar and sets things in order.
March 2,
1965
Factors that inhibit man's
progress
Listening to the
exposition of scriptural texts has been prescribed as one of the
methods to secure the knowledge of the Self. "Will it not suffice to
do the learning off and on instead of daily" is the question raised
by some. Others wonder at the very purpose of hearing such
expositions.
Philosophical and
religious matters cannot be understood by attending a lecture or
two. By continuously visiting the places where such themes are
analysed, discussed and commented upon, it will be possible for a
sincere man to grasp the fundamental doctrines. Gradually he will be
able to digest even intricate injunctions. Unless the utterances in
the Sastras are constantly listened to man is sure to forget them.
Man's knowledge is covered by layer of dust in the form of ignorance
and dissertations help him to wipe it out and make him realize
Truth.
In his lecture Sri
Abhinava Vidhya Thirtha of Sringeri referred to the three factors
which inhibit a man's progress – greed, anger and stinginess. At
times, a person is jealous of others enjoyment, feeling unhappy that
he has been denied the same. If he does not have what he likes, he
feels depressed, and frustration makes him angry. Man cannot totally
eschew both desire and wrath but to a great extent, they can be kept
under check, and it is in this context that scriptures provide the
guidance.
The Sringeri Sankaracharya
narrated the tale of two intimate friends who vied with each other
to marry a damsel (a creation of Brahma) to highlight how lust
destroys even close friendship. He advised people to cultivate
contentment and enjoy what God has bestowed upon them. His Holiness
also cited the instance of a parsimonious man who did his
accumulated money in a river bed, hoping to retrieve it later but
lost it entirely in the floods. The money could have been used for
charitable purposes. Acts of nobility, upholding Dharma, gaining
knowledge through a study of Vedantic texts, leading a life of
contentment, helping the cause of the have-nots will all help to
keep one's mind pure.
January 28,
1982
Dharma holds key to an
integrated life
Human life represents
progress from animality to excellence – not a static, cyclic
repetition of biological necessities. It is an advancement from the
transient to the permanent, from ignorance to wisdom and from
mortality to life immortal. Progress is also a dual process of
conserving the values which we have acquired and adding on to them
in order to meet the contingencies and demands. This is the motive
behind the aspiration for wealth, which gives us the wherewithal to
indulge in legitimate pleasures. To lead an integrated life without
stress and tension, without Jealousy, greed or hatred of fellowmen
and in peace with outer Nature and the vicissitudes of fortune, we
need a golden key – "Dharma". Lord Rama demonstrated that He had
secured all the three with this marvelous instrument. He symbolizes
Dharma. His life presents an integrated picture – of vital
satisfaction, aesthetic longings, social pleasures, fame and
popularity. The Ramayana is not just a "guardian" of the past – it
is a light that will guide humanity for ever.
In the present world of
hectic hurry, no ideal attracts us except the excitement of the
moment. The appeal to uphold the norms of righteous conduct, as
contained in the epic, is irresistible. Those who read this mighty
document will realize that Dharma is within the reach of all and it
will secure all that a human being wants, if he chooses to follow
the directives. Those who transgress these rigid rules will miss the
real pleasures of life.
Sri Rama set His face
against that wealth and power, which contravened the principles of
Dharma, Dr. P. Nagaraja Rao pointed out in a discourse. "If my
father's promise necessitates my banishment, I am ready for it," He
declared. Dharma is the antiseptic that keeps away the toxins
generated by unbridled longing for fame, etc. The Epic does not ask
us to be poor but cautions that wealth should not "possess" us.
Righteous conduct, as portrayed by Sri Rama, is the cementing
factor, integrating the two values – power and desire.
August 21,
1985